# 2 Learn other’s preferences
Expanding my knowledge with the TetraMap® tool, it’s easy to transition from looking at myself to now noticing others. Sensing their natural preferences, I can guide and navigate conversations in a totally new light. It quickly becomes clear why I feel instantly connected with some, especially those who share my natural preferences and how easy it is to distance myself from others, especially those who have different nature styles. Creating this spark of awareness is everything!
# 3 Understand what I can do to connect with others better
Connecting the dots here means I can always flex my style to make an even greater connection. Having a chat and/or meeting with someone who is high in Earth and Air natures, I can prepare ahead of time utilising healthy tactics until this becomes 2nd nature all the time. There is nothing like the thrill of sensing they feel safe and connected through conversations that are direct, detailed and goal orientated … because that’s what they cherish most.
Now, let’s say I catch up with a friend whose Water and Fire elements are high. It makes sense to flow naturally chatting to and asking powerful questions about feelings, dreams and their loved ones, all so I can create a deeper connection.
With simple shifts like these, it’s easier to take conversations to another level regardless if we share similar nature preferences … or not.